Here are 34 truth or dare questions and dares for kids, teens and family game nights, all kept friendly and safe. The game is older than most people think: a version called questions and commands is recorded as a Christmas game as early as 1712.
Truth or dare has a reputation for getting out of hand, which is a shame, because played well it's one of the funniest games there is. The trick is choosing truths that are revealing without being cruel and dares that are silly without being dangerous or humiliating. Everything on this page is written for mixed groups, sleepovers and family nights, so you can hand it to children without worrying. You'll also find a short set of ground rules, because the rules are what turn this game from risky into one of the best laughs of the evening.
How truth or dare works, and how to keep it safe
Wikipedia describes truth or dare as a mostly verbal party game for two or more players, who choose between answering a question truthfully or performing a dare. It's especially popular with children and teenagers, and an early variant called questions and commands is recorded as a Christmas game as early as 1712. The same article also carries a warning every parent should know: predators have sometimes used the game to groom children. That's why adult supervision and clear rules matter for younger players.
| Ground rule | Why it matters |
|---|---|
| Everyone can pass a set number of times | Nobody feels trapped by a question or dare |
| No dares involving danger, food allergies or leaving the room alone | Keeps everyone physically safe |
| No dares that embarrass someone or touch another person | Keeps it kind and comfortable |
| No filming or posting without permission | Silly moments stay in the room |
| An adult nearby for children's games | Basic safeguarding, as the warning above shows |
Truth questions for kids
Gentle, funny and safe. Perfect for sleepovers and family nights.
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What's the silliest thing you've ever cried about?
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Have you ever pretended to be ill to skip something?
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What's the weirdest food combination you secretly like?
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Who in your family makes you laugh the most?
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What's the most embarrassing thing that's happened to you at school?
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If you could swap lives with anyone for a day, who would it be?
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What's something you're scared of that you've never told anyone?
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What's the worst present you've ever received?
Funny dares for kids
Silly, safe and done on the spot. No food dares if anyone has allergies.
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Talk like a pirate until your next turn.
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Do your best impression of a teacher, without saying who it is.
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Sing everything you say for the next two minutes.
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Walk like a penguin around the room.
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Try to lick your elbow.
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Speak only in questions until it's your turn again.
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Do ten star jumps while saying the alphabet backwards.
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Make up a short song about the person on your left.
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Pull your funniest face and hold it for ten seconds.
Truth questions for teens
A little more personal, still kind. Remind everyone they can pass.
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What's a habit you'd like to break?
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What's the last lie you told?
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What's something you've never told your parents?
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Who was your first crush?
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What's the most embarrassing thing in your search history that you're willing to admit?
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What's one thing you'd change about yourself?
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What's the worst advice you've ever followed?
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What's a secret talent you have?
Dares for teens and family game nights
Funny but harmless. Nothing that involves danger, other people's property or posting online.
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Let the group choose a new ringtone for your phone for the rest of the night.
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Do a dramatic reading of the last text you sent.
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Speak in an accent of the group's choice for three rounds.
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Do your best runway walk across the room.
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Try to juggle three soft items.
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Tell a joke, and keep telling them until someone laughs.
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Act out a film scene without words and let the group guess it.
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Balance a book on your head until your next turn.
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Give a two-minute speech on why socks are the greatest invention.
Making it work for a mixed-age group
Family gatherings often mix a six-year-old, a moody fourteen-year-old and a grandparent who wants to join in. The easiest fix is two piles of cards: one with the kids' truths and dares, one with the teen set, and each player draws from the pile that suits them. Grandparents nearly always pick dares, by the way, and they're usually the funniest. Let the youngest go first so they don't lose patience, and give the teenagers the job of reading out the cards, which keeps them involved without feeling babyish.
How to get better truth or dare games
- Agree the ground rules before the first turn, including how many passes each person gets.
- Keep truths kind. The aim is laughter, not exposing someone.
- Check dares for safety. If it involves heights, food, fire or leaving the room alone, skip it.
- Mix ages carefully. Use the kids' sets when younger children are playing.
- Stop if someone's upset. A game is only fun if everyone's enjoying it.
If you want more party games that keep everyone laughing, my round-up of party board games has easy picks, and families might enjoy my 2 player Switch games for siblings when the party winds down.
My advice for running truth or dare
Set the rules first, stick to the sets that suit your group, and keep an adult around for children's games. Played that way, truth or dare is a brilliant mix of giggles and getting to know each other, and it's lasted for centuries for good reason. Played carelessly, it hurts feelings fast, so err on the side of silly over shocking.
Frequently asked questions
What are good truth or dare questions for kids?
Gentle questions like 'What's the silliest thing you've ever cried about?' or 'Who in your family makes you laugh the most?' work well.
What are good dares for kids?
Silly, safe dares like talking like a pirate, walking like a penguin or singing everything you say for two minutes.
How old is truth or dare?
An early version called questions and commands is recorded as a Christmas game as early as 1712.
Is truth or dare safe for children?
It can be with clear rules and an adult nearby. Wikipedia notes predators have sometimes used the game to groom children, so supervision matters.
What are the rules of truth or dare?
Players take turns choosing to answer a question truthfully or do a dare. Agree passes and safety rules before you start.
