To set up Facebook Dating, open the Facebook app on your iPhone or Android phone, tap Dating (look in the menu if it isn't on your shortcuts), and follow the steps to create a separate Dating profile. You must be 18 or older, Dating only works in the phone apps, not on a computer, and it isn't available in every country.
Facebook Dating lives inside the Facebook app, but it's kept separate from your main profile. You create a Dating profile, choose what to show, and match with people who've opted in too. Setting it up takes a few minutes. The common stumbling blocks are that it doesn't exist on computers, it isn't in every country, and it needs your location to work.
Who can use Facebook Dating
| Requirement | Detail |
|---|---|
| Age | At least 18, and allowed to use it under your country's laws |
| Device | Facebook app on iPhone or Android only |
| Account | An active Facebook account |
| Location | Available in many countries, not all |
Facebook's Dating terms set the age at 18 and say you must be legally allowed to use it where you live. That's separate from Facebook's own minimum age of 13 for a normal account.
Steps to set up Facebook Dating
- Open the Facebook app on your phone and update it if needed.
- Tap Dating. If you can't see it, open the menu and look for it under All shortcuts or See more.
- Tap to get started and follow the steps to create your Dating profile.
- Add photos and details you're comfortable sharing.
- Allow location access when asked, so Dating can suggest people nearby.
- Set your preferences, such as who you'd like to match with, then start browsing.
Why you can't find Dating
- You're on a computer. Facebook says Dating is only on the Android and iPhone apps.
- It's not available where you live. Facebook describes it as available in many countries, which means not all.
- You're under 18, or your account's age says so.
- Your app is out of date. Update Facebook and check the menu again.
- Location problems. Facebook has separate help for location mismatch on Dating, which can stop it working correctly.
Your Dating profile is separate
Dating uses a separate profile from your main Facebook one, so you can choose what goes on it. Use recent, clear photos, write a short honest description, and only share details you'd be happy for a stranger to see. Treat it like any dating app: you control what's on it, so keep personal information such as your workplace or home area vague until you trust someone.
Writing a Dating profile that works
A good Dating profile is short, specific and honest. Pick photos where your face is clear and recent, and include at least one that shows something you enjoy, such as walking, cooking or music. In the written parts, say what you're looking for and one or two things that make you stand out, rather than a list of what you don't want. Specific details give people an easy way to start a conversation.
- Use your first name only.
- Choose recent photos, with at least one clear face shot.
- Mention hobbies or interests people can ask about.
- Leave out your workplace, street or anything that pins down where you live.
How matching works
Dating uses the preferences you set and your location to suggest people. You can browse suggestions and show interest, and conversations start when there's a match. Because it relies on location, keeping location access switched on for the Facebook app helps it show people near you. If you travel, suggestions can change with where you are.
Staying safe
- Keep conversations in the app until you're comfortable.
- Meet in a public place and tell a friend where you'll be.
- Never send cash or bank details to someone you've met online, however convincing the story.
- Report and block anyone who makes you uncomfortable.
Dating and your Facebook friends
Many people worry that friends will see they've joined. Your Dating profile is separate from your main profile, and the point of the feature is to meet new people rather than to advertise your love life to everyone you know. Still, use common sense: if you'd be uncomfortable with a colleague recognising a photo, choose a different one.
Changed your mind?
You can take a break or delete your Dating profile without affecting your main Facebook account, and you'll find those options in Dating's own settings. If someone behaves badly, my guide to restricting someone on Facebook covers your main account, and it's worth checking where you're logged in on Facebook if you ever shared your phone.
My verdict
Open the Facebook app on your phone, tap Dating and create your separate profile, as long as you're 18 or over and in a country where it's offered. Allow location so it can find matches, keep your profile details sensible, and remember you'll never find it on a computer, however hard you look.
Frequently asked questions
How do I set up Facebook Dating?
Open the Facebook app on your phone, tap Dating, and follow the steps to create a Dating profile.
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How old do you have to be for Facebook Dating?
At least 18, and legally permitted to use it in your country.
Can I use Facebook Dating on a computer?
No. Facebook says Dating is only on the Facebook apps for Android and iPhone.
Why isn't Facebook Dating showing for me?
It isn't available in every country, needs the latest app, and requires you to be 18 or older.
Is my Facebook Dating profile the same as my Facebook profile?
No. Dating uses a separate profile, and you choose what goes on it.
Will my friends see my Facebook Dating profile?
Your Dating profile is kept separate from your main Facebook profile, and you choose what goes on it.
Can I take a break from Facebook Dating?
Yes. You can pause or delete your Dating profile without affecting your main Facebook account.
Does Facebook Dating need my location?
Yes. Dating uses your location to suggest matches, and location problems can stop it working.
