I’ve learned that there are 2 types of people in the world.
Those who say hi first ? and those who wait to be greeted ?
I’ll admit, I’m a talker. I can chat to people in queues, on the train, the shopping center. I learn interesting things too, that I wouldn’t have known if I hadn’t started chatting.
But most people took their mum’s advice to heart & don’t chat to strangers.
It might save them from being kidnapped on those 1-in-a-million occasions, but it also stops them from learning fascinating stuff ?
How does this relate to business?
Entrepreneurs fall into 1 of 2 categories:
- Proactive marketers (talkative go-getters)
- Reactive marketers (strong, silent type)
Proactive marketers go out there & look for leads. They do outreach, speak to people, & ultimately make their own luck.
Reactive marketers wait for people to come to them. They post on social media & hope. They wait for referrals to magically come to them. In the end, what happens, happens.
Which one are you?
- Most marketers are reactive.
Without even realizing it!
Any of this sound familiar?
? You wait for clients to find you
? You rely on word of mouth
? You don’t like following up
? You prefer email to phone calls
BUT…
Truth Bombs:
With reactive marketing:
❌ You’ll never get to 10k+ per month consistently
❌ You’ll never know what you’re making each month
❌ Your leads aren’t always the right people for you
❌ Referrals are extremely short-lived
❌ Posts get lost on social media and end up in the void of the internet
This is what separates the big guns from little, stagnant businesses.
This is what takes you from average to excellent.
Your business success literally hinges on this.
Proactive marketing.
If you want success, financial freedom, to know what you’re making each month, to work with your dream clients-
You have NO choice.
You need to be a proactive marketer.
That means:
? Finding new leads constantly
? Making sure they’re qualified
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? Reaching out
? Getting on calls
? Following up
? Actively selling
? Repeat!
If you’re a “wait to be spoken to” kinda person, you won’t get far in business.
Proactive marketing takes work.
It’s harder than reactive marketing.
But proactive marketing PAYS.
Here’s how:
? Chance to make a great first impression
✋ No more inappropriate clients approaching you
? Knowing exactly how much money you’re making each month
? Being able to pick & choose your clients
? Chance to scale your biz to 10k, 20k, or beyond
If you’re still doing reactive marketing, it’s time to rethink your marketing strategy.
“You can either live on purpose, according to a plan you’ve set. Or you can live by accident, reacting to the demands of others. The first approach is proactive; the second reactive.” - Michael Hyatt
Truth is, there’s no place for lazy marketing in today’s business world.
Don’t fear the hard work. Rather prepare for what & who you want than waiting for them to find you by chance!
The 2026 shift: why the same content stopped working
If your marketing suddenly feels like it's shouting into a void, it's not you losing your touch. Three things moved at once in 2026, and most people are still marketing themselves like it's 2026.
First, AI-generated answers took over a huge chunk of search. When someone asks a question, Google and ChatGPT now often answer it directly, no click required. That means the old strategy of "write a blog post, rank for a keyword, get traffic" is worth a fraction of what it used to be. The blog post still matters, but only if it's the source those AI tools pull from, and only if what happens after someone does click is strong enough to convert them fast.
Second, platforms stopped rewarding reach and started rewarding proof of relationship. Algorithms across LinkedIn, Instagram and YouTube now weight comments, replies and saves far higher than likes or shares, because the platforms are trying to prove to advertisers that real conversations are happening. A post with 50 likes and no comments does worse than a post with 12 likes and 8 replies. Most people are still optimising for the wrong number.
Third, and this is the one that catches people out most, trust moved from brands to individuals almost entirely. Buyers, especially in B2B, will look at the founder or the salesperson's profile before they look at the company page. If your personal presence is thin, inconsistent, or clearly written by someone else, that's now doing damage to the business, not just to your own visibility.
What this means in practice:
- Stop writing content designed purely to rank. Write content designed to be quoted, screenshotted, or referenced by an AI answer, which usually means being specific, opinionated and structured clearly rather than vague and keyword-stuffed.
- Reply to every comment on your own posts for the first hour. That window is what tells the algorithm your content is worth spreading, and skipping it is the single easiest thing to fix this week.
- Get your personal profile to a standard that could stand alone as a landing page, because for a growing number of prospects, it already is one.
- Stop measuring success by reach or impressions. Measure it by replies, saves, DMs and the conversations that start from a post, because that's what the platforms are rewarding now.
None of this means throw out everything you were doing. It means the weighting has changed. Volume of content matters less than it did. Consistency of a real, specific voice matters more. If your marketing still reads like it could have been written by any competitor in your space, that's the wrong-way sign to fix first.
What people ask me
Is organic reach basically dead now?
Not dead, but it's become conditional. Platforms will still push your content out, but only after it proves itself with comments and saves in the first hour or so. If nobody engages early, the algorithm assumes it's not worth spreading further. So reach is still there, it just has to be earned in a much smaller window than before.
Do I still need a blog if AI answers most questions directly?
Yes, but the job of the blog has changed. It's less about ranking for traffic and more about being the clear, well-structured source that AI tools cite or draw from, and about giving people something to convert on once they do land there. Thin, generic posts do neither job anymore.
What's the fastest fix if I've fallen behind on all this?
Bottom line: Most people market themselves the way they'd want to be marketed to, not the way their audience wants to be reached. If your message, channel, and timing don't match what your audience needs right now, you're just shouting into a void.
Frequently asked questions
What are the most common signs you're marketing yourself the wrong way?
You're talking about features instead of outcomes, you're on the wrong platforms for your audience, you're inconsistent with posting, and you're chasing every new tactic instead of building on what already works. If engagement feels flat despite effort, that's usually the real signal.
How do you figure out the right way to market yourself?
Start with who you're trying to reach and where they spend their time online. Then test small, track what gets response, and double down on that. Your own preferences matter far less than your audience's habits and pain points.
Is personal branding different from marketing your business?
Yes and no. Personal branding builds trust and visibility around you as an individual, while business marketing sells a product or service. The two should work together, but confusing them is a common reason people feel stuck.
How long does it take to see results from a change in marketing approach?
Give any new approach at least 60 to 90 days of consistent effort before judging it. Quick wins happen occasionally, but sustainable visibility and trust are built through repetition, not a single viral moment.
