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It wasn’t always this way

The clock has just hit 8:30am. 

You sit down, open your laptop, and click on your email. 

Your fresh cup of coffee and your motivation are already cooling down. 

As your email pops open, you’re bombarded with… 

“Boost your Instagram followers and make money for nothing!” 

“Paid ads are the solution to all your business problems!” 

“LinkedIn is dead, do THIS instead!” 

“STOP posting content and get on YouTube if you want your business to survive!” 

“Buy this NOW if you want to be successful!” 

One thing after another, promising to fix your business and make you a ton of money. 

It’s enough to make anyone overwhelmed, especially if you’re already doing these things they’re vehemently insisting are wrong. 

Luckily for you, I understand what works and what doesn’t. But it wasn’t always this way. 

Back when I started my first business, I tried it ALL. 

Paid Facebook ads, Google ads, YouTube ads, banner adverts, social media marketing, cold-calling, networking events, email, old-school snail mail… 

I did all right. But it was overwhelming. 

I was getting clients, but not always the best ones. 

And it was costing me money, sleep, and happiness. 

I had a baby to look after, I had quit my full-time job, and I was really all alone in the business world. 

I was miserable. 

And I felt like I would never be able to do this business thing. 

It wasn’t until I started focusing on specific business pillars that things started turning around. 

I put together a framework of specific actions, and when I started doing them consistently, a few things started happening: 

  • I started getting the results I was looking for 
  • My dream clients started coming in 
  • My sales doubled… Then tripled, then more 
  • I was getting more done in less time 
  • Others were coming to me for advice 
  • I began enjoying work 

And I kicked myself when I realised that it wasn’t nearly as hard as I was making it seem in the beginning. 

If you can follow a system, be disciplined, and stay consistent… 

You can be successful. 

It doesn’t matter if you have experience or not. 

It doesn’t matter if you’re a first-time entrepreneur or if you’re starting your 10th business. 

Everyone can build and run a successful business if they follow a few principles. 

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If you’re in a tricky position right now, not where you want to be in your business, and unsure of how to move forward and start finding the success that you want… 

You have two options. 

Number one, the hard way. Keep doing the same way you already are, wade through stuff on the internet to find the gold in amongst the junk, read hundreds of self-help books, go for hypnosis, pay an agency a fortune to do the hard work for you…. 

Or… 

Number two, the easy way that keeps you in the driver’s seat. Take advice and learn from someone who’s done it all before, made the mistakes, and spent thousands of dollars… And who’s used that experience to create a framework that actually works. 

It’s up to you! 

If you want a shortcut (a legitimate, smart one, not a cheating kind of one), Elite CMO is it. 

Use my experience as a springboard. I’ll check out your business and show you exactly what to do to move forward. I’ll teach you how to reach your ideal customers so you have a constant supply of hot leads coming in. And I’ll even help you write content to reach them. 

I’ll set you up for success. Then you run with it from there. 

Does that sound good? 

Related: Menopause Burnout and the Days You Cannot Push Through

The short version: Things change, and the way we work, connect, and grow online has shifted more times than most people realize. What felt permanent was always just a phase, and what feels impossible now has a way of becoming the new normal. History is the best reminder that today’s frustration is tomorrow’s turning point.

Frequently asked questions

What does “it wasn’t always this way” mean for marketers and business owners?

It means the rules you are playing by right now were written recently and can be rewritten again. Algorithms change, platforms rise and fall, and audience behavior shifts constantly, so clinging to one fixed strategy is a losing game. Knowing that things have changed before gives you permission to adapt without panic.

How do you stay grounded when everything keeps changing?

Focus on the principles that have held steady across every shift, such as building real trust with your audience, solving genuine problems, and showing up consistently. Tactics come and go, but those foundations have worked in every era of marketing and will keep working in the next one.

Is nostalgia for “the way things were” ever useful in business?

Only if you use it as data rather than comfort. Looking back at what worked in an earlier period can surface timeless ideas worth revisiting, but romanticizing the past instead of learning from it will leave you stuck while your competitors move forward.

How do I know when a change is permanent versus just a trend?

Watch behavior, not buzz. When a shift changes how people spend their time and money over multiple years, it is structural. When it changes what people talk about for a season, it is a trend. Build your core strategy around structural shifts and test cautiously around trends.

Published and maintained by the Lilach Bullock team, covering marketing, AI and business growth.
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